Kerri, Costarican, vegetarian, feminist, aspiring pastry chef, forever questioning my sexuality. I'm also a very spiritual person, my relationship with God is the most important thing to me, I don't sleep with a pillow, I have a skin disorder called dermatographism, I have a literal 'security blanket' that I've carried around since I was an infant, I don't like tea, I love candles, I despise the sound of people chewing ew, I'm trying to love others and perhaps myself.
Let’s say a woman is trying to be seductive. What the hell makes you think you’re the one she’s trying to seduce? And if you aren’t, what the hell makes you think you have any right to shove yourself into her business? Your thoughts are your own: you are free to notice her, think about her, fantasize, etc. — you are not free to involve her, through actions or words, that disclose what’s going on in your pants unless she specifically consents and makes it clear. It astonishes me to no end that men have a problem with this. A lot of guys wouldn’t appreciate being hit on by someone they’re not interested in but they expect women to accept it.
if you find any humor in racist, fat-phobic, sexist, or rape jokes please stay like 10+ miles away from me at all times
If men’s kindnesses toward women were really only kindnesses, a man would be pleased if another man or woman offered these kindnesses to him. He would be pleased if another man or woman lit his cigarette or pulled out his chair for him. He would be pleased to derive his income, prestige, power and even his identity from his partner. He would take pride in another man’s or woman’s offer to walk him to his car at night. But in fact, “one of the very nasty things that can happen to a man is his being treated or seen as a woman, or womanlike.
people are so weak and impressionable and i dont want to be that way ever
i just want to be good